Are you making this common style mistake without even realizing it?

So many women over 40 feel frustrated with their outfits- like they are trying but still not feeling put together. The mistake? Ignoring their proportion! It’s one of the most overlooked style blocks that keeps your outfit from looking intentional. This can be fixed easily – don’t worry! Let’s talk about what this mistake looks like, how to spot it and fix it so you feel more confident and aligned with you, everytime you get dressed.

What This Common Style Mistake Looks Like

You’ve got all the right pieces, the cute top, stylish jeans and even great accessories– but something still feels “off”.

The outfit feels frumpy, boxy, ill-fitting or just missing that polished look.

This is usually a proportion problem

Why Proportion Matters

Proportion is all about how the parts of your outfit balance together–length, fit, shape and where your clothes visually begin and end on your body.

When you outfit cuts you off at the wrong spot, it breaks up your body line and can feel unflattering- even when the individual item may work on it’s own.

How to Fix Common Style Mistakes -Fast

The solution isn’t buying more clothes. It’s styling what you already have, but focusing on proportion.

Try the Rule of Thirds

Instead of splitting your outfit in equal halves ( 50/50), aim to divide your body visually into 1/3 and 2/3. This technique helps to avoid cutting your body at it’s widest point. It can also create length, even if your legs are on the shorter side.

Add Structure Where You Need It

• A drapey top with wide leg pants? Add a structured jacket.
• Long dress? Break it up with a belt or short layer.
• Flowy on top and bottom? Ground it with a sleek shoe.

Use Contrast to Your Advantage

If your top and bottom are similar in color or shape, add contrast:

• Texture-Knit + Denim
• Color- Dark top + Light pant
• Shape- Fitted + Flowy

Real Client Shift

One of my clients kept saying to me, ” I have cute clothes, but I never feel cute in them.”

Once we discovered she was constantly wearing outfits that visually cut her body in half, we created 3 simple outfit recipes using her higher rises, shorter jackets and more intentional layering. She texted me a week later saying, “I didn’t even buy anything new- I just finally felt like me again.”

Want a Sneak Peek of What Flatters Your Shape?

Here’s a quick style guide from the Styled Well Blueprint:

• Triangle (Pear): Highlight your waist with tucked tops + cropped jackets.
• Inverted Triangle: Balance your frame with wide-leg pants and v-necks.
• Rectangle: Add shape with belts and fitted layers.
• Oval: Try longer tops with slim-fit bottoms and vertical lines.
• Hourglass: Use wrap dresses and high-rise bottoms to emphasize your shape.
• Figure-8: Pencil skirts, belted blazers, and soft blouses do wonders.

This is just the beginning—your proportions deserve a personalized plan.

Want Help Styling Smarter?

Skip the guesswork and discover your personal style blueprint.

The Styled Well Blueprint includes:

• 60 minute coaching lesson with me via Zoom.
• Customized PDF with your best silhouettes, shapes and wardrobe tweaks.
• Style confidence that fits your life– not just your closet!

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